6 “If she marries a husband, while under her vows or any
thoughtless utterance of her lips by which she has bound herself, 7
and her husband hears of it and says nothing to her on the day that
he hears, then her vows shall stand, and her pledges by which she
has bound herself shall stand. 8 But if, on the day that her husband
comes to hear of it, he opposes her, then he makes void her vow that
was on her, and the thoughtless utterance of her lips by which she
bound herself. And the Lord will forgive her. (Numbers 30)
In the matter of making vows to the Lord, while the woman was free to do
so, she would need to have the approval of the head of her household,
whether she be an unmarried woman or a married woman.
Exhorting Men in Spiritual Matters
On several occasions in Scripture, women were used by the Lord to exhort
men who failed in their responsibilities before God. In Exodus 4.24-26 we
read how the Lord sought to put Moses to death. His wife Zipporah,
however, took a flint knife and cut off the foreskin of their youngest son,
appeasing the wrath of God and saving her husband’s life. Moses had failed
in his responsibilities as spiritual head of the family by not circumcising
their son. His wife rebuked him by saying: “Surely, you are a bridegroom of
blood to me” (Exodus 4:25). Were it not for her actions, Moses may never
have reached Egypt. When Moses failed in his obligation, she took on his
role and spared the family. While this responsibility belonged to the male
head of the family, in this case, Zipporah, as the wife took it on because of
her husband’s failure to be the leader he needed to be.
Deborah exhorted Barak to take courage and fight their enemy Sisera and
his forces. It appears that Barak was fearful of taking on this responsibility.
Deborah, however, challenged him to be faithful to the direction of the Lord
and the responsibilities he had as a military commander.
6 She sent and summoned Barak the son of Abinoam from Kedesh-
naphtali and said to him, “Has not the Lord, the God of Israel,
commanded you, ‘Go, gather your men at Mount Tabor, taking